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YouTube Video UCzO2mhi3C84UDhyn-SPzyJw_VTBKs9EfpOw "The Humble Hero and the Stuck Sweatpants" 👖😳
Kevin had just joined a new gym and was feeling himself. New shoes, water bottle with motivational quotes, and gym clothes so tight they squeaked when he walked.

Today was leg day—and confidence was at an all-time high. He strutted into the locker room like he was filming a fitness commercial.

After his intense (okay, medium-intense) workout, he hit the locker room to change. That’s when it happened.

His gym bag zipper jammed.
Inside: his actual pants.
Outside: Kevin, standing in compression shorts that left very little to the imagination.

He tugged the zipper.
Yanked it.
Used his teeth (regret).
Eventually, in a full panic-sweat, he asked another gym-goer:
“Hey, uh… can you help me open my bag?”

The guy looked at him, then at the shiny, vacuum-sealed shorts Kevin was wearing.
“Sure, man.”

The stranger calmly opened it in two seconds. Zipper slid like butter.
Kevin stood there blinking.
“…Oh. Thanks.”

Then came the final blow—Mr. Zipper Helper gave a small smile and said,
“Nice shorts, by the way.”

Kevin mumbled something between “thank you” and “please erase this from your memory,” then quietly got dressed and shuffled out.

Gone was Gym Commercial Kevin. In his place?
Humble, stretchy-pants Kevin.

Moral of the story?
Humility isn’t about being small—it’s about laughing at yourself, asking for help, and knowing tight shorts don’t make you stronger. 😂💪

Sometimes life gives you a stuck zipper just to keep your ego flexible.
"The Humble Hero and the Stuck Sweatpants" 👖😳
Kevin had just joined a new gym and was feeling himself. New shoes, water bottle with motivational quotes, and gym clothes so tight they squeaked when he walked.

Today was leg day—and confidence was at an all-time high. He strutted into the locker room like he was filming a fitness commercial.

After his intense (okay, medium-intense) workout, he hit the locker room to change. That’s when it happened.

His gym bag zipper jammed.
Inside: his actual pants.
Outside: Kevin, standing in compression shorts that left very little to the imagination.

He tugged the zipper.
Yanked it.
Used his teeth (regret).
Eventually, in a full panic-sweat, he asked another gym-goer:
“Hey, uh… can you help me open my bag?”

The guy looked at him, then at the shiny, vacuum-sealed shorts Kevin was wearing.
“Sure, man.”

The stranger calmly opened it in two seconds. Zipper slid like butter.
Kevin stood there blinking.
“…Oh. Thanks.”

Then came the final blow—Mr. Zipper Helper gave a small smile and said,
“Nice shorts, by the way.”

Kevin mumbled something between “thank you” and “please erase this from your memory,” then quietly got dressed and shuffled out.

Gone was Gym Commercial Kevin. In his place?
Humble, stretchy-pants Kevin.

Moral of the story?
Humility isn’t about being small—it’s about laughing at yourself, asking for help, and knowing tight shorts don’t make you stronger. 😂💪

Sometimes life gives you a stuck zipper just to keep your ego flexible.
39 Practice Humility
"The Accidental Love Bomb" 💬❤️😳
Greg had just read his morning page from Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. The message was simple:

“Tell three people today how much you love them.”

He nodded seriously. I’m doing this. I'm spreading love. Today’s gonna be meaningful.

First up—his mom. Easy.
Greg (text): Love you, Mom. You’re amazing. Thanks for everything.
Mom: Are you okay? Are you sick? What happened?
Greg: No, just grateful.
Mom: Now I know something's wrong.

Second, his best friend Mike.
Greg: Hey man, love you, bro.
Mike: ...You drunk?
Greg: No! It’s 10 a.m. I’m being deep!
Mike: Awkward. But... love you too, I guess?

Then, Greg got a little overconfident.
He saw his boss walking by.
And for some reason…
Greg blurted out, “Hey, I just want to say I really love you!”

Boss froze.
Greg froze.
Office silence.

Greg (backpedaling fast): “I mean… I love… working here… and… your leadership... style?” 😬

Boss: “Right. Well. Let’s never speak of this again.”

Lesson?
Yes, telling people you love them can feel awkward—especially if one is your boss.

But sincere love, awkward or not, makes people smile, laugh, or at least wonder if you're okay.
And that’s kind of beautiful. 😂❤️

So go ahead—tell three people. Just maybe keep it PG and context-friendly!
38 Tell three people, Today, How much you LOVE ❤️ them
"The Great Ketchup Debate" 🍟😅
It all started with french fries.

Jessica and her boyfriend, Tom, were having a casual dinner when they got into a heated debate:

Does ketchup belong ON the fries or NEXT to the fries?

Jessica was a dipper.
Tom? A full-on fry smotherer.

Jessica shook her head. “You’re ruining the fry-to-sauce ratio. It’s basic logic.”
Tom replied, “I’m enhancing flavor distribution. It’s science!”

Soon, they were pulling out imaginary charts, using fries as props, and referencing “historical ketchup norms” like this was the Fry Olympics.

Mid-rant, Jessica paused.
She looked at Tom, dramatically swirling ketchup like it was an art form.

And she thought about the lesson from her book:

“Choose being kind over being right.”

Was it worth winning a fry fight and losing the vibe?
Nah.

She smiled, slid her fries toward him, and said, “Smother away, Ketchup King.” 👑

Tom blinked. “Wait… I win?”
Jessica grinned. “No one wins. But we’re not fighting over condiments anymore.”

They high-fived.
And invented a new method: one side dipped, one side smothered.
Fries united. Relationship saved.

Lesson?
Sometimes, choosing kindness over being right means surrendering the ketchup battle to win the peace prize. 🥇🍟💛

And really—who wants to be “right” and hangry? 😂
37 Choose Being Kind over Being Right
"The Great Remote-Control Incident" 📺😅
It was Sunday afternoon. Quiet. Peaceful.
Until it happened.

BAM!
The TV turned off mid-football game.

Dan whipped around to see his 5-year-old niece Lily standing triumphantly with the remote in her tiny hand, smiling like she’d just solved world peace.

“Lily,” Dan said, panicking slightly, “what did you do?”

“I pressed ALL the buttons!” she beamed. “I’m a remote explorer!”

Dan stared at the screen—now displaying Japanese subtitles, upside-down. The sound was a slow-motion opera version of the weather channel.

He wanted to scream. Cry. Maybe move to a Wi-Fi-free forest.

But then he looked at Lily. Her little pigtails, her proud grin, her belief that she had just invented television magic.

And in that moment, he remembered today’s lesson:

"See the Innocence."

She wasn’t trying to ruin his day. She was just… exploring the world, one chaos button at a time.

Dan knelt down and said, “Well, Explorer Lily… let’s go on a mission to fix it together.”

They never did fix the TV.
But they discovered how to make popcorn in a pan.
And Dan kind of enjoyed watching the weather in opera.

Lesson?
People—especially little ones—often act out of curiosity, not cruelty.
Look past the “behavior,” and you might find innocence wrapped in chaos and cuteness. 😂💛
36 See The Innocence
"The Hangry Monster at Table 4" 🍔😡➡️😅
Emily was a waitress at a cozy little café where the muffins were warm and most customers were sweeter than the syrup.

One day, a grumpy man stomped in, sat at table 4, and barked,
“Coffee. Black. Fast.”

Emily blinked. “Sure thing!”
She smiled politely while mentally assigning him the nickname “Captain Cranky.”

He glared at the menu like it had personally offended him.
When she returned with the coffee, he grumbled,
“It took that long to pour a cup?”

Emily bit her tongue, trying not to dump the coffee on him.
What a jerk, she thought. Who wakes up and chooses rage with their toast?

But as she turned to walk away, she overheard him on the phone:
“I’m sorry, Mom… I’ll get there as soon as I can… I know it might be the last visit.”

Her heart sank.
Oh.
He wasn’t a jerk. He was hurting.
He wasn’t angry at her—he was struggling, scared, overwhelmed.

Emily returned with a muffin on the house.
He looked surprised.
“What’s this?”
She smiled. “Muffin emergencies. We’ve all had one.”

For the first time, he smiled back—just a little.
And said, “Thanks.”

Lesson?
Behind every grumpy mood or bad behavior, there’s usually a story you don’t see.

Sometimes people aren’t monsters. They’re just hangry, heartbroken, or human.
So before reacting, try adding a muffin—and a little compassion. 🧁😄
35 Look Beyond Behavior
"The Accidental Coffee Hero" ☕😅

Brian wasn’t a morning person. In fact, before his first cup of coffee, he was basically a tired potato with a pulse.

One Monday morning, still half-asleep, he stumbled into his favorite coffee shop. When he got to the register, he reached for his wallet—only to realize…

He had forgotten it at home.

Brian stared at the cashier in horror. “I… I have no money.”

Before he could melt into embarrassment, the woman behind him smiled and said, “Don’t worry, I got you!” and paid for his coffee.

Brian was shocked. People actually do that?

Fueled by caffeine and inspiration, Brian decided to pay it forward the next day.

When he got to the coffee shop, he saw a guy fumbling through his pockets, looking stressed. Brian seized the moment.

“Hey man, I got you!” he said confidently, slapping his credit card on the counter like a superhero.

The guy blinked. “Oh… uh… I was just looking for my rewards card, but… thanks?”

Brian awkwardly nodded. “Uh, yeah… enjoy your free coffee…” 😬

Later, as he sat sipping his latte, he realized:
Kindness doesn’t have to be perfect—it just has to happen.

And with that, Brian vowed to keep the good vibes going… just with better timing next time. 😂

Lesson?
Random acts of kindness don’t need to be big or perfectly executed. Even an awkwardly timed coffee can make someone’s day! ☕✨
34 Practice Random Acts of Kindness
"The Banana Bread Breakdown" 🍌🍞
Sophie had recently gotten into baking. One day, she made banana bread and brought it to work, proud and excited.

Her coworker Linda took one bite and gasped, “Sophie! This is amazing! You should open a bakery!”
Sophie lit up. Maybe I am a baking genius, she thought. Martha Stewart, move over.

Later, her boss Mike grabbed a piece, took a bite, and made a face.
“Hmm… kinda dry, no?”

Dry?! DRY?!
Sophie spiraled. Maybe I’m a fraud. Maybe I should never bake again. Maybe banana bread was a mistake.

That evening, Sophie recapped the rollercoaster to her roommate, who said, “Sophie, it’s banana bread. Not the Nobel Prize.”

And then she remembered the line from her book:

“Praise and blame are all the same.”

Whether people loved or hated her banana bread, it didn’t define her. It was just feedback. And guess what? The bread still tasted fine to her.

The next day, she brought cookies to work. When Linda said, “Sophie, these are incredible!” and Mike said, “A little too sweet…” she just smiled and replied:

“Y’all are adorable. I’m gonna keep baking either way.”

Lesson?
Praise might boost your ego, and blame might sting your pride—but neither changes who you really are.

Especially if you're holding a plate of cookies. 😂
33 Praise and Blame are all the Same
"The Exam That Wasn’t"

One Monday morning, Karen spilled her coffee, forgot her lunch, and hit every red light on the way to work. As she sat in traffic, fuming and sticky with latte, she muttered,
"Why is everything going wrong today?!"

That’s when she remembered the line from her morning reading:
“Life is a test. It is only a test.”

“Oh great,” she said aloud. “Well, if this is a test, I’m failing it hard.”

Determined to reset, she told herself: I will handle everything like a calm, wise adult today.

Test #1: Office printer jammed.
Karen took a deep breath, opened the tray, and yanked out the paper. It ripped. She calmly whispered, “Nice try, universe.”

Test #2: Her boss asked, “Did you get that email I sent at 11:59 p.m. last night?”
She smiled sweetly and replied, “No, I was too busy dreaming of inbox zero.”

Test #3: Her coworker microwaved fish. Again.
Karen bravely held her breath and retreated to the stairwell with her sandwich and dignity.

By 3 PM, she felt victorious. I passed all the tests!

Then, just as she was leaving work, she realized she’d locked her keys in the car.

She stared at the keys sitting on the seat, then looked up at the sky.
“Okay, fine! Bonus round!”

Moral of the story?
Life is a test—but not the kind you study for. It’s the pop quiz of patience, humor, and coffee stains.

And hey, just showing up counts as partial credit. 😂
32 Life is a Test. It is only a Test.
"The Case of the Mysterious Bad Mood"
It started as a normal Tuesday morning for Jake—until disaster struck.

He woke up annoyed.

Nothing major had happened, but suddenly, everything felt wrong. His pillow felt lumpy, his coffee tasted like disappointment, and even the birds outside seemed extra obnoxious.

Then, the real trouble began.

At work, his coworker Tim cheerfully said, “Hey Jake, how’s it going?”

Jake squinted at him. How dare he be happy?

Instead of his usual “Good, you?” he grumbled, “Fine.”

Tim gave him a weird look and backed away slowly.

By lunchtime, Jake was fully convinced that life was unfair. His job was boring, his emails were stupid, and his sandwich was 90% bread, 10% regret.

Then, just when he was about to declare the entire day a failure, something strange happened.

He checked his phone and saw a notification:

“Reminder: You only slept 4 hours last night. Drink water and chill.”

Jake blinked. Oh.

It hit him. He wasn’t actually mad at the world—he was just tired and dehydrated.

Feeling ridiculous, he chugged some water, took a deep breath, and decided to stop taking his mood so seriously.

By the end of the day, things magically didn’t seem so terrible anymore. His emails weren’t that stupid, Tim was probably not his mortal enemy, and his sandwich? Okay, still mostly bread, but edible.

Jake learned an important lesson: Sometimes, you’re just hungry, tired, or slightly grumpy for no reason. Don’t trust the bad mood—it’s probably lying to you.

Moral of the story?
Next time life feels unbearable, ask yourself:

Did I sleep enough?
Did I eat?
Am I just being dramatic?
Because sometimes, all you need is a snack and a nap. 😂
31 Become aware of your moods and don't allow yourself to be fooled by the low ones
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