My latest business trip took me to Corvallis, a quaint college town in Oregon, home to Oregon State University. Before arriving, I joined a local Kakao chat titled âDiscovering Corvallisâ to ask a simple question: âWhere can I find good Korean food here?â A few names popped up, but one stood out âCheong Song.â I eagerly searched for it on Google. Strangely enough, no such restaurant appeared in the results, not even when I tried combinations like âKorean food Corvallisâ or âCheong Song Corvallis.â Frustrated but curious, I went back to the group to clarify.
âCheong Song doesnât seem to come up. Does anyone have the exact address?â Someone kindly replied, âIt might have been renamed something like Amamatsu.â A quick search for âAmamatsuâ finally revealed the name “Aomatsu” and a location. It closed at 10 PM, and with my flight landing in Portland at 7 PM and Corvallis two hours away, I calculated Iâd just make it in time.
On the Road for a Bowl of Soup and a Shot of Warm Sake
The thought of warm soup and a shot of warm sake motivated me as I made my way south. After a long drive, I arrived at the restaurant, only to find it eerily empty. As I stepped inside, the familiar chime of a doorbell greeted me. âExcuse me, are you still open?â I asked hopefully.
A staff member replied, âWeâll stop seating in five minutes, but you can order takeout.â
Reluctantly, I accepted my fate for the night and decided to try again the next day.
The Art of Sushi and Personal Rituals
The following evening, I returned to Aomatsu, determined to enjoy my meal properly this time. A staff member recognized me from the night before and greeted me with a smile. âWerenât you here last night?â she asked. I nodded and said, âYes, but tonight Iâd like to dine in.â
Whenever I visit a new sushi place, I have a personal ruleâI start with chirashi. This dish, with its bed of sushi rice topped with an assortment of sashimi, serves as my litmus test for a sushi restaurant. It reveals the quality of the fish and the chefâs skill in preparing sushi rice. If I like what I taste, Iâll order a few pieces of nigiri or rolls and sometimes finish with a small bowl of ramen.
The chirashi arrived, and I tasted the first bite: white fish, tuna, then salmon. As the flavors blossomed, I realized I was doing something I often do when the food is goodârubbing the fingers of my left hand together unconsciously, as if savoring every bit of taste required a tactile response. âTo find sushi of this quality in a small college townâwhat a pleasant surprise,â I thought to myself.
But then, another thought emerged: âIs this truly exceptional sushi, or have I adjusted my expectations because Iâm in a small town?â
The Trap of Modern Comparisons
Morgan Houselâs Same as Ever came to mind. In it, Housel contrasts life in the 1950s with life today. Back then, people had far fewer material possessions, yet their sense of happiness was often greater. Why? Because they werenât bombarded by constant comparisons. Without social media showcasing curated snapshots of othersâ successes, vacations, and material wealth, people werenât reminded daily of what they lacked. Happiness was simpler, rooted in what they had, not in what they didnât.
Today, itâs a different story. Every scroll through social media exposes us to someone elseâs seemingly better lifeâa bigger house, a better job, a more picturesque vacation. Itâs no wonder we often feel like weâre falling behind. We live in a world where comparison starts the moment we open our eyes in the morning.
Reclaiming Our Own Standards
As I reflected on the sushi, I realized that taste, like happiness, often depends on the lens through which we view it. Was the sushi truly extraordinary, or was it my relief from the monotony of business travel that made it seem so? More importantly, does it matter?
We live in a time where we must actively resist the pull of comparison. Instead of asking, âWhy donât I have what they have?â we should ask, âWhat brings me joy, right now, in this moment?â Satisfaction comes not from measuring ourselves against others but from appreciating whatâs in front of us and creating our own standards.
The sushi in Corvallis reminded me of something simple yet profound: the value of experiencing life on our own terms. Sometimes, happiness isnât about finding the best sushi in the world but about savoring the sushi you find, wherever you are.


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